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Old 08-11-2012, 01:51 AM   #1
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Herpes :(

I can't believe I am writing this....I think I have herpes my gp thinks I have. I am in so much pain and he has nothing, no symptoms.
I have been single with no sexual contact at all for two years, I find out my ex of 6 years is getting married and I haven't moved on, so I go out for lunch with this well educated property developer and get very drunk and go back to his place for the night.
The next day I realise I have made a stupid mistake sleeping with someone i don't even fancy and dont want a relationship with so I decide to put it behind me and move on.
Then a day later I start getting lots of symptoms and am told by gp I have an sti, I call inform the guy who is devastated and said he would never have anything and is really shocked regarding my symptoms.
He gets checked the next day and is told they can't see anything but has to wait for the test results mean while I start getting sores coming up 5 days after sex and spk to my gp who says she thinks I have herpes.so,I call my posh, clean well educated last sex partner and tell him I am so upset I think I have herpes he says oh that my ex wife had that for awhile but it went dormant I didn't get it or anything so that's why he is called tim he is dim.... I hate him, he will be calling soon and he is having a lovely wkd and I am home suffering, I never want to see him again. He thinks his tests will come back negative but please tell me they won't if he has no signs but he still has it will it show up...I am just so upset can't believe I have waited two years and caught herpes in one night by sleeping with someone I don't really fancy .....now I am also worried about aids

 
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Old 08-11-2012, 04:38 PM   #2
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Re: Herpes :(

Oh wow, I am sorry you are dealing with this. If his ex-wife had it there is a good chance that he has it as well since it doesn't disappear just because it is dormant there are still risks of transmission. His test may come back positive, I am sure it is not going to be what he expects but I hope he is honest enough to call and let you know the results.
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Old 08-11-2012, 10:30 PM   #3
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Re: Herpes :(

Hi thank you for your reply, day 3 feeling a little more calmer

 
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