I am sorry to hear your dealing with this. I do think it is weird there are no numbers, without that I think it is hard for someone to say whether or not you have had it for a while or not.
Just know that if you are positive it is not the end of the world and it seems that your body has a great immune system for you to not have any outbreaks. There is life after the virus, you can get married have kids all the fun stuff
If you have any questions feel free to post but in the mean time try to keep your stress levels low (stressing out can bring on an outbreak) and just keep your head up. Every emotion you are feeling right now everyone here has felt but it gets better. I have had this beautiful pesky skin condition for 12 yrs and I joke about it because you can't let if affect you or rule your life.