When both partners have HSV2 & HSV1
I'm trying to find reliable information on the situation when both partners have HSV1 and HSV2.
On the one hand, I read a lot that says "Once you've got, you've got it, so now you can forget the condoms and relax, it's not like either of you are going to catch it again, especially if you caught it from the person you're sleeping with as you're certain it's exactly the same strain."
On the other hand, I also read a lot that says when you have an outbrteak, above all don't touch it with yor finger and then touch any other part of your body 'cause you can spread it to other areas - you're own infection! Well if you can re-infect yourself, surely you must be able to re-infect another through shedding.
So, before anyone does anything foolish, I'm hoping to find some reliable sources on the subject. Anyome know of any?