Re: questions, need some info/advice.
If he does not have the virus, the chances seem very slim that it would have transferred to you genitally.
Have you changed any soaps, lotions, lube, condoms lately? Have you shaved? Sorry just trying to think maybe you are having an allergic reaction to something.
*Please remember you can still transmit (even when no signs)& catch herpes even while using a condom since it is transmitted from skin to skin contact or from sore secretions not inanimate objects*