Chance of transmission if you have hsv1 oral and partner has hsv1 gential
So I have had shingles, hsv1 oral (on cheek(first time) and on bottom corner of lip). Later on had oral sex with my girlfriend while I had an oral outbreak coming in. She ended up getting one outbreak and none since then. So she has hsv1 genitally and I have hsv1 orally. She takes 500mg of valtrex daily and I take 500 mg of valtrex when I have sex with her which is usually for a couple times a weekend per month because were long distance. We always use condoms and I shower with antibacterial soap after. So my question is under these circumstance could I get HSV 1 genitally since I have it orally and both me and her take valtrex and use a condom? Secondly, she really wants me to stop using condoms so what's my chance of getting hsv1 genitally if at all if I don't use a condom?