Re: What the heck is "safe sex" now?! :dizzy:
I would get tested, it's possible you are HSV+ as well and not aware.
Also, I don't want to minimize your stress, but to be completely honest, HSV is not the end of the world, especially if you're in a committed relationship with someone who also has it. It can cause a little pain and discomfort early on, but symptoms are more manageable than many other conditions, and so occasional that it is not a huge deal. So, it makes sense to be afraid, but if you have chosen to still be with your husband then it might be best to just let the chips fall where they may rather than putting so much stress on yourself and the relationship.