Hi there, and welcome. My suggestion is to go to the herpes board, (which you can find by clicking on the "Find a Board" above in the blue stripe along the top). You will find many nice people there who are very helpful and knowledgeable in answering questions about herpes.
So sorry! You might want to add herpes to the title of your post. There are times when you have to give the right folks the chance to see your post and answer. We are all here to help, and I am sorry you are having trouble getting the information you need. Have you gone to the STD board, and read some of the other posts? Sometimes you will find lots of info in others questions too. I will watch and make sure you get the help you need, OK?