I am going to the doctor tomorrow. I have all the symptoms: sores, burning when I urinate, achy muscles.. These things hurt!! I am with a new partner of 3 months. He says he has never had any symptoms. I have had razor bumps but never anything like this. I have it, regardless if I've had it and didn't know or I DID get it from him, which I think I did...I just want some relief and to start treatment..I have a question tho..Do I always have to use condoms? Can we still have oral sex if I'm not having a breakout? These are the main things I am worried about..for now..thanx.