Re: very anxious afraid i have herpes
It is natural to feel stressed in moments like these. I am a guy who has oral herpes. There are two factors to stress here. First and foremost, it is unimportant how you contracted herpes, rather the fact that you have it and need to get on with your life is what is important. Secondly, yes it is possible that this guy got herpes from someone else. In my case, I knew I had something wrong (and immediately suspected something was wrong) in my own case when I had given fellatio to another guy. However, I know other guys who have not had any symptoms for as long as 20 days and others seem to have never had any symptoms whatsoever. So who gave what to whom is likely to always remain a mystery. Having said this, herpes is easily spread, it is spread by skin to skin contact rather than by transmission of body fluid. So that also adds to further compound matters.