Hello to you all. 33 year old newlywed who's been diagnosed with lab coat BP and some general anxiety issues to boot. 119/70 at home 170/70 at the doc's

Started on Paxil about 3 weeks ago to see if it would help alleviate my anxiety and BP issues when it comes to stressful situations. Well, it helped me feel calm and collected but my average BP at home didn't improve and in fact it probably went up.

Not to mention I couldn't have an orgasm to save my life. My wife is worn out!
Needless to say, Paxil wasn't for me and now I'm about to take Toprol XL 25mg to try and regulate my BP and keep my emotions even keeled. What's the consensus on what time of day is a good time to take Beta Blockers? I'm sure it varies with each individual but I'm curious to hear some feedback. I would imagine I'll feel a bit fatigued at least at first from this so I was thinking bedtime would be best but I want to make sure I'd get a lasting affect throughout the day. Thoughts?