Michael,
Sorry to hear about your depression and the side effects of your meds.
I think the problem here (side effects) may be due to the interactions between your medications.
Xanax and Zebeta (Bisoprolol): the coadministration of hypotensive (blood pressure) and psychotherapeutic (antidepressants) agents increases hypotensive and depressant effects. Additive effects result in drowsiness and dizziness. People should be monitored for hypotension and excessive and prolonged depression.
Xanax and Effexor: Central nervous system depression and respiratory effects increased. People should be monitored for depression and also respiratory depression.
Bisoprolol and Effexor - additive effects
Xanax and magnesium - minor interaction (delayed GI absorption)
Bisoprolol and magnesium - oral magnesium decreases bioavailability of beta blockers
It would be great if your doctor allowed you to get off the antidepressants. They only perpetuate the problem of depression. They also contribute to your side effects through their interactions with the blood pressure meds. Some of your medications have additive effects when combined with the others. This means that your body is affected by them to a much greater extent than intended with the dosage prescribed. I have been dealing with the same thing.
Magnesium has a depressant effect on the central nervous system. Perhaps your depression was partly caused by your magnesium supplementation. I don't know how strong the dose needs to be to affect people in this way. Magnesium produces vasodilation. Low doses can result in flushing and sweating, larger doses lower blood pressure. I don't know what you make of all this. In general, the more medication a person takes, the greater the occurence and intensity of side effects.

(At least in my experience). It is possible that without the antidepressants, your side effects from the CCB & BB could be minimal and well tolerated. Only your doctor knows whether or not you need this medication. You should have a discussion with him about your depression and its presumed causes.
flowergirl