Sorry I have a few more questions, I don't know much about this and also didn't think I had this problem!!
How long is "having it for a while and its now got out of control" kind of thing? And with high blood pressure is it ALWAYS high or is there some days its normal but most days its high? I'm trying to determine how long i've had this to see how serious I may be.
About a year and a half ago I was having some health problems with really bad headaches (ended up being chronic sinusitis) and had my blood pressure taken every time I went to the doctor. Once it was high, but the next time I went it was normal. So i'm wondering if it does go back to normal for a day or so and goes back to high. If not then I can't have had this more than a year or so.
Also you mentioned that you had your veins show more on your stomache, can this happen anywhere? I think I get that on my palms it gives a kind of "dotty" effect because the skins thicker because we use our hands more and you can't see them fully.
Also I read in another post about insulin resistance being linked with high blood pressure? I think I also have this, i've thought i've had insulin resistance for a while as I have darkened/browned skin under my arms, around my neck etc and I heard thats a sign of insulin resistance. I first tried to link this up with PCOS as i've been having some infertility issues but all my hormone tests came back normal.
I hope you can help me figure this out. Its not confirmed yet, I have to go back to the doctor in 2 weeks time to have my blood pressure taken again and if its high again he's going to put me on meds

But I can see thats whats going to happen, it was bound to happen one day, I really haven't been looking after my weight