this bugged me enough to come back and add....
if you are ANY kind of a human being
i would suggest you fess up asap!
and get your partner tested asap!
the longer your partner has it and it is left untreated
the less amount of time they will be on the planet.
if you really cared about someone you
wouldn't be doing it in the first place.
i have to cut it off here, because
i cannot say anything nice anymore... sorry