Can you get HIV this way??? - HIV Prevention Message Board

TK421 · 11-25-2004, 12:01 AM

I asked this question a while ago but I wanted to see if anyone had any opinion.

I am a man and I have a boyfriend of quite a few years who is HIV positive. We got tested after being with eachother 6 months and we didn't really partake in anything risky. Especially me, (I do not get entered because I just don't like it!) We found out he was poz and I was neg. Before we met he recovered from using needle drugs and got out of an unfaithful relationship of several years and got it that way.

Anyway, we must stay safe which leaves little to do. Not too long ago we were mutually masturbating. He was close to me and when he ejaculated, it got on my urethra. My urethra when I'm erect is open a little, as most guys are sometimes, so a little of the semen got in / on my urethra, but it wasn't more than a few seconds and I ejaculated too. I had no cuts, bruises or irration on my urethra.

Is there any risk there of catching HIV that way. I know there was a "doctor" trying to get men into penile rubbing - men rubbing their penises together until orgasm. He never mentioned any sort of problem like this, saying it was the safest thing to do - although I had many questions - and I can't find any information on the net about it. Does anyone know?

hiv_scared · 11-26-2004, 11:05 AM

Im not gay nor have any answers for you but I do have a question for you tho.. before you knew he was +.. have u slept with him unprotected? If so how many times? Reason for me asking is i slept with a female about 2 years ago; and about 3 weeks ago was told that she had hiv then and has aids now! Im just really scared and wanted to know what were the chances of contracting this unprotected. I know i hear 1/500 but being ur another one like my self who accually knows they been with a + person i thought id ask... well thats if it was unprotected. If u were then dont mind the question.....