Just had an experience - HIV Prevention Message Board

cbm30 · 06-05-2005, 08:46 PM

Hello everyone, if anyone could read over my recent event and give me some helpful and if possible calming feedback that would be well appreciated. Ive been talking to this girl, shes 19 and im 21. Id see her at parties here and there and shed make out with me thats it. well finally she let me have sex with her last night. i used condoms but she was so dry down there that the first two condoms broke. i noticed when they broke and put on another. On the otherhand i did a few pumps in her before i noticed they had broken so i was inside her without a condom for maybe a minute at the most. well my worry came the next morning when i found blood on the unbroken condoms. therefor she had been bleeding a little from the dryness. there was a little specs of blood on the broken condoms which means she was bleeding a little while i was inside her without a condom. ive always been a worrier and i dont want to spend the rest of my 3 month summer vacation worrying until i am able to get tested. you never know whos been with who these days. please someone get back to me with some helpful advice. i hate the worrying feeling. thanks alot

panaSONIQUE · 06-06-2005, 04:46 PM

If you did not have any open sores or cuts then that decreases the liklihood of transmitting HIV. You're not sure if she's HIV positive or not, so it's a 50/50 chance with that as well. You're exposure was pretty minimal,but since there was some time without protection and possibly some blood, it's a good idea to get tested. HOwever, the odds are in your favor.
Good Luck & please keep us posted!
-Sarah

cbm30 · 06-06-2005, 07:42 PM

Thanks for the response, i forgot to mention that out of the two condoms that broke there wasnt any blood on the first and only a few specs on the second. so i dont think she was bleeding until further into the sexcapade. i hate those broken condoms aka penis garderbelts. please if anyone else can give me some calming input i would welcome it greatly. thankyou