encounter with stripper..going crazy - HIV Prevention Message Board

worried1234 · 06-15-2006, 09:19 AM

Okay so I have been driving myself crazy for about a year now. Right before I left for college a bunch of my friends decided we should go to a strip club to celebrate. One of them paid for a lap dance for me because I said I didn't want one. Once there she took off her underwear and removed mine and began rubbing her vagina up and down my penis but there was never any insertion. I would never have thought any more of this considering I have never had sex before but for the past year now I feel like every symptom of HIV has graced me with their presence. I've been anxious to the point of insanity and I just need to know what you think and if these symptoms could just be a part of me stressing out about it. Everyday I wake up tired, with muscle aches, sore throats, fevers, etc. Please give some advice and thanks for your time.

last1 · 06-15-2006, 06:20 PM

I can't see that this is a risk. What you participated in is called "frotage". HIV is not tranmitted sexually except through insertive, ejaculatory sex. Also, there is a greater risk to the woman from you (if, of course, you were HIV+).

worried1234 · 06-15-2006, 07:40 PM

Yes, and that is what many people have told me but I am a bit more worried because I have what resembles small genital worts. I have not had any other encounters and my dad actually had a form of genital worts that weren't STD related so I was wondering if it could be something caught from bathrooms, etc. Any thoughts on that would be great and thanks again this is a wonderful site for anyone with any type of problem.

last1 · 06-15-2006, 07:45 PM

genital warts are not HIV. Go to you doctor and have him/her check them out.

worried1234 · 06-15-2006, 07:56 PM

Okay again very encouraging and i am seeing my doctor on monday. Only other question is that a week and a half after the incident my penis was very itchy and I had a sore throat, pure coincidence or not?