Ronnie honestly it doesn't matter how bad the symptoms are that still doesn't mean that they are hiv related and believe it or not there are many other things that can cause them and make life miserable for some one .
If you're body was actualy being attacked by hiv that hard that would suggest a farely high viral load and a pcr would definatly pick something up by at least 28 days ( wich is the actual time frame to use a pcr )
Where you diagnosed with epstien barr ? Because there is a posability you could also have something else going on there in combination with it like CMV (Cytomegla Virus ) and ( Human herpies )
Lymphnodes swell to fight infection and/or disease and they battle many things that are hiv related .
Could you put up you're testing history for me ?
We are all here for you Ronnie
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