Cflas you are absolutely right stages wasn't the right way to put it I apologize I'm just a worrier lol...umm my exposure I just don't know the person i gave unprotected oral to and I didn't let them ejaculate but who knows if they pre-came

I hope not I might of had chapped lips from doing it so that's why I'm concerned I'm not sure if the guy was HIV+ or not but I was just worried...so they could be negative but it's just 6 months after that and I've had a month long cough and a sinus infection now that after 4 days on antibiotics they still haven't fully worked I'm just scared I guess I'm sorry I was just trying to see if those illnesses I have were signs after 6 months of exposure...I know you said oral is low risk and I don't even know if this guy is positive i'm just a worrier...I really appreciate your responses and expertise on everything though...I really think if everyone had someone like you they wouldn't worry about anything thanks !