Re: Adivce would be great ~ So worried :(
You are fine. If you used a condom, you are fine. Oral sex is just not a major way of transmission unless there were cuts in your mouth. It really doesn't matter either way because your tests were negative. People don't seem to realize just how accurate these tests are. If it says you're neg, trust me (and the test), you are negative. You can't go chasing symptoms. Everyone on this board seems to do that, and it's just going to make you feel awful. The symptoms associated wth ARS (the symptoms of initial infection) are so broad that they really could actually be caused by anything. Also, not everyone gets these symptoms. Some people get every symptom known, while others feel nothing.
I guarantee that you don't have it. It must be something else, but it is NOT HIV.
You did the responsible thing and got tested, and now you know that you are fine. =)