BadLuck

I did oral(active) to a female no cut, nothing then sex using condom but touched inside part due to lack of knowledge not with wet hand but slippery vaginal fluid, I am sure that may have gone with the theory of survival of virus in air.
My two lymph nodes are swollen under my chin, After reading here I though may be because of touching it. But after 7th week a gland (I am not sure what kind of gland it is just behind the ear) got swollen with a burning/hurting sensation. I could feel it. Then the right side is getting same sensation on 8th week and little bit swollen too. Is it because of I am stressing out too much?? I don't have any fever or anything except I feel I have something on my tongue, white, I am not sure it is or not but there is a small bump on my upper jaw, Which I remember I had before also time to time.
When I talk to the lady (Aferican american) she says she does not have anything, I am not sure why I feel so much why she does not feel like that... She does not have any diohrrea, bump or rash or anything except she had 2 times fever for one day in last 4 months.
Plus she says, She would feel if something was wrong with her body. What the hell, Why can not she feel, I never had these swollen gland (As I remember, except for the ear one for sometimes).
Why is she so confident and does not go for checkup. I can't convince here as she has left the city. Now she says she is trying to loose weight and applying for job in UK, I don't know what to do. I can't even talk to her as she does not give me her phone number. She says she does not have money as it is new job and I have lots of expenses, I can't call you everyday. I said well give your number which she does not...
I am totally freaked out.. Sir/Madam/Junior/senior please help!!! I can not sleep and cry all the time. I may loose my job as there has been a lots of problem coming up.
Also I got tested just on 4th week and the result came -ve. I am waiting for some more time to elapse for next test, Doctor also tested for Herpes atleast I remember and there was nothing then why this swollen nodes???

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-------PLease someone Pray for me I promise, this will be my first and last mistake...