please help - HIV Prevention Message Board

07-21-2003, 02:53 PM

im really worried about my sexual behavior. I fooled around with a girl the other night and i just kissed her and sucked on her boobs. Heres my worry . I got a hand job after fingering her. I gave myself a handjob with the same hand i was fingering her with. I am real worried. I have read this is close to nil risk off the body website. But i am still scared. Please help me guys. I didnt have oral anal or vaginal

Krissy518 · 07-21-2003, 03:11 PM

Relax. Unless you had a cut or open sore, your risk was NIL. Even if you had a sore, your risk is so low, and doctor would not even reccomend you be tested.

calm down and be happy..

07-21-2003, 04:08 PM

thanks krissy. should i bother to get tested off this. Man i was so scared until you responded. I don't think i had a cut. Im uncircumsized. Does this make it worse>?

normorcrazy · 07-21-2003, 09:55 PM

The last post is right. Open sore means just that. A healed over sore has a barrier that protects the virus from entering the blood stream. Besides, you said you didn't have any sores, so there's nothing to worry about. If it were me, I wouldn't get tested if this was my only means of sexual activity. However, if you are sexually active (protected or not) it's always best to be tested annually! Though it's almost impossible to get HIV with protection, this is just incase there was a break or the condom was used incorrectly. Good luck to you and take care!!

I do have a response for Stupid... I'm guessing you are talking about yourself. Sorry not everyone is as educated as you with your wide vocabulary, but we are here to give and receive positive support. If you are unable to do so please resort to another board where your immature response might be welcomed. Thank you!!!

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