You should not have sex with anyone without telling them your hiv status. At this point, I think you should stop having sex with him, and if you don't want to tell him your status, then contact the health department in your area to alert him anonymously through partner notification services. You can't help what other people choose to do, but you do have a responsiblity to protect others since you are aware of your hiv status.
He may already be hiv poz himself, did you think of that? Someone who insists on having unprotected sex is at high risk. In that case, you're putting yourself at risk for hiv superinfection. Only you can deciede what to do, however. You can get through this if you do what is right. Good luck to you and God Bless.
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