HIV negative. I was normal for all of the major STDs. I had protected sex and unprotected oral sex with about a dozen different escorts, and I have tiny, painless red bumps on the head of my penis. The RNP who did the testing said I did NOT have HPV but rather some sort of rash that would eventually go away without treatment, but I could go to a urologist to get it checked out if something more develops.
I know people sometimes have moral qualms with escort-dating and such, but I do not. Consensual sex between two adults should not be illegal. I had sex with some perfect 10 women and sometimes even two or three at a time. However, these recent developments were a big wake-up call for me... I could die before I reach 30 if I keep this up. I won't be seeing any more escorts until I'm at least in my 40s when I wouldn't mind getting infected as much. Thanks for reading.
Stupid Moron, I am glad you are negative but you have quite the stinky attitude. It doesn't matter how old you are, HIV is still a drag no matter what age you get it. Why do you think your life will suck when you are over 40?
Stay away from hookers. Men that have to pay women to have sex with them are quite pathetic.
I don't want to get involved in a full-fledged discussion, but you're judging something you know very little about. Do a search for escorts near you and you will see that many of the women are hotter than the women you would fantasize about. If having a couple of extremely hot porn stars "speaking French" with you at the same time is pathetic, then I would happily volunteer for a pathetic life.
If it weren't for STDs, I would probably sleep with way more than a thousand women by the time I'm done. Why sleep with 7s and 8s when you can get 10s without any real attachment other than fulfilling your every fantasy. There's a reason why prostitution is the oldest profession... well-to-do gentlemen have frequented them since the beginning of history. As far as the laws are concerned, they're hardly a standard for ethics - do you ever feel "guilty" while speeding, when you drank as a minor, or how about weed? We should all follow the laws, but none of us follows every rule. I wouldn't trade my experiences with escorts for anything, and I would only have regretted them if I contracted a serious STD from an encounter. You have your opinions, I have mine. Let's just leave it at that.
As far as the 40s thing goes, that's around the time when you've seen pretty much everything, and you just want to enjoy life before your noodle goes limp or wrinkly.
The lucky men are the ones that get these women and do not have to pay. A hooker will sleep with any guy no matter how ugly for a price. Yes I have done some not so smart things but nothing that would involve knowlingly putting myself at risk for AIDS and other STD's.
What makes you think that guys in their 40's are limp and not sexy? You are obviously not very smart anyways given your screen name. You are willing to risk alot just to sleep with woman who under a normal circumstance would not go anywhere near you.
Im not sure about the over 40 thing. Im only 34 but i dont believe you have to worry about a limp tool when you hit 40. 40 is still pretty much young. The big 50 is when it all starts to go down hill from what ive seen. And as far as escorts, i say keep on keeping on. Study after study has confirmed that prostitutes have about the same HIV prevelance rate as the general population. So live it up while you still young!!
Guys, please note that I said you can enjoy life in your 40s BEFORE things go downhill for you. After 50 and 60, your sexual drive just will not be there. Take that for whatever it's worth. For now, I'll probably find a few massage parlors from aspd.net or eros.com and just get hand releases and dry nude grinding so I don't catch any serious infections. That's hardly illegal.
We all make our choices in life and we're forced to live with them. I know I won't risk getting HIV until my 40s because I don't have much of a desire to live past 65. Take care of yourself and have protected sex. I made the mistake of having unprotected sex ONCE with an escort and I was worried for 3 months about catching HIV. That's the reason behind my screenname. I'm actually pretty smart. Take care.
Mongo Man, whoever gave you the information that the HIV rate in prostitutes in the same as the general population is sadly mistaken. Think about it. Many prostitutes do not have safe sex and they sleep with alot of men who also visit other prostitutes, who sleep with men unprotected. It is a nasty business. Some escort agencies do test for HIV but you do not know how often, and there is the dreaded window period.
Street hookers have a HUGE HIV infection rate it is 25-50% in some cities with Vegas being 25% according to the Vegas Metro police. Alot of street hookers also use drugs which puts them at even more risk.
As far as massage parlors and escort agencies, there is a greater risk. These girls do NOT have safe sex 100% of the time. Go read posts on some other hiv/aids related sites you would not believe how many men post that they had unprotected sex with an escort and then are worried about HIV. If an escort has unsafe sex with one man, she probably has had unsafe with others.
John Stagliano the porn star known as "The Buttman" has HIV thanks to a Brazilian brothel. He is married to another porn star who also has HIV. She got it from likely Marc Wallice and that has been linked to several infections with a couple female porn stars having HIV, including Brooke Ashley.
The porn industry tests every 30 days and look what happened here. Several actors now have it.
Bottom line is, playing with fire and you eventually get burned.
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tempermental, those stats are nonsense. try going to review some real studies regarding the infection rate of prostitutes as opposed to listening to the fuzz. your presumptions are very middle-class in nature and show a distinct lack of knowledge about prostitutes. If the woman is giving five dollar head to smoke crack, then she is probably a lot more likely to be infected that the average ****. but as for escorts, their bodies are their livelihood and the escorts that I have known through work (i am an attorney) take very good care of themselves and always use protection. look at the statistics for the legalized prositutuion houses in nevada. not one hiv poz in the last five years of testing. you, my friend, have the bourgeouis blues.
Why would you EVER put yourself at risk again? I don't care how old you are is hiv the way you would want to die? I'm sure that if you got infected in your 40's you would regret ever having that kind of attitude! Either that or you will be back on this board or another one saying how stupid you were again. I guess some people never learn. Honestly, escorts or not, you never know WHO is infected, so ALWAYS protect yourself.
No offense to the original poster... we all have our things and if you wanna pay for p**** then thats on you. But how can you brag about it? Seriously, its not like your doing anything special... my 90 year old granpa can pop a viagra and pay, just like you did, for the same "10" girls. If you wanna brag about something, go out and meet girls yourself and get p**** without paying money for it. But like I said bro no offense thats ur thing... just dont see why u brag about it.
Tempermental, those stats you give are just riduculas. There is NO GROUP whatsoever of any risk category that has a 25-50% positive rate, thats just stupid. And the article about a mystery illness, whatever, get real. And of course your CDC link reguarding prostitutes dont work. Many study have shown prostitues in the USA are only a slightly higher risk. Hell, i bet your wife is a higher risk than most prostitutes!!
We dont live in Africa you idiot. We live in the USA!!! I dont thing stupid moran is jumping on a boat and traveling to Sub-sahara Africa for a little nookie. We are talking about the good old USA. Your would most likley be a higher risk encounter than most prostitutes, otherwise you wouldnt be on this site...LMAO