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Old 07-27-2011, 08:30 AM   #31
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Re: Help from anybody please

Hi to jersey

I wish I was hypochondriac but I need this close because of my gf. I am sure that lady wanted it to me and found the way when I was drunk and without experiences in these situations. I ll post tomorrow anyway

 
Old 07-27-2011, 04:26 PM   #32
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Re: Help from anybody please

Now I am certainly not trying to be rude at all but I think you need to get off of this HIV obsession and check in to mental health help for closure on the guilt for what you have done and which is likely the cause of your hypochondriasis.
You are negative for HIV, and frankly I am finding your going on about it the way you are to be insulting to those members who are positive.
And please don't refer to HIV as a "death sentence" out of respect for those here who have it. I'm sure there are many people posting here with HIV, trying to help YOU in fact, who live very happy and fulfilling lives outside of their infection.

Really though I just say these things because you truly NEED a dose of reality before you hurt yourself...I worry about you if you don't get help. I am a psychologist and my opinion is that your obsession is becoming extremely dangerous mentally.

 
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Old 07-27-2011, 10:40 PM   #33
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Hallo

I am really sorry and I apologize if I noted something as death sentence, of course it is not I am aware of medics and technology improving in this fight. I am obsessed by thoughts that I hurted innocent partner so this makes me express those thoughts. I can not even express how many people are helping me and everybody else. I am so sorry once again if I insulted someone. Sorry

 
Old 07-28-2011, 09:32 PM   #34
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Re: Help from anybody please

did you get your results back yet?

death sentance is one of the better things i've heard said.
it doesn't bother me at all,
but it shows even more that the poster doesn't fully understand what hiv is all about.
that is ok, i would say more then half the people out there don't
or wouldn't understand it.

i just hope for the posters sake
he accepts this test and starts living again
instead of being trapped with fear by his imagination from his guilt.

 
Old 07-29-2011, 02:00 PM   #35
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Smiteler and Alyssa,

So true...Bud, you ahve no concept of the disease or how it functions. Take Alyssa's advise and get see a mental health professional ASAP. This is out of compassion bud.

 
Old 07-29-2011, 11:46 PM   #36
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Re: Help from anybody please

Hallo everybody

My 7m antibody is still negative. I know it has to sound insane but now I am aware of confection. Anyway I am going to therapist on Tuesday.

 
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Hallo everybody

My 7m antibody is still negative. I know it has to sound insane but now I am aware of confection. Anyway I am going to therapist on Tuesday.
you are hiv negative
let us know how it goes with the therapist
good luck

 
Old 07-30-2011, 08:34 AM   #38
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Please relax about the HIV stuff. If you spend as much time researching probabilities as you do worrying then you'd see that the odds of you getting infected are pretty low to begin with. And then on top of that having negative tests yet still being positive? You're more likely to be struck by lightning. Twice.

 
Old 08-19-2011, 09:25 AM   #39
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Re: Help from anybody please

Hi everybody

So just for the update last week I visited psychological/HIV specialist. He did not also believed in my risk exposure as I tried to describe. So I was so far diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and put on antidepressants. But he also mentioned that the tests are not 100% reliable anyway and told that I should talk to my girlfriend and take her for testing. I told her and she answered that I am crazy and she does not want the speak about this concern again. Also doctor ordered other test ( not HIV) like biochemistry test and complete blood screen. I called him last Friday and he told me that blood screen is still not there but results of bio is:

Glucose level - normal, diabetes excluded
Tsh hormone - normal, autoimmune dis excluded
Creatin level - normal, kidney function considered as ok
Cholesterol - little higher, I expected
Bilirubin, sat, alt - liver function, told that it is excellent may be hepatitis excluded

BUT I called him today I asked about blood screen and he told me that i should come anytime next week and he wants to discuss it personally and I do not have order myself which is weird.

I am still scared, antidepressants work little but oral thrush is still persistent and swolen nodes in my neck are still present. I need to solve this ASAP.

 
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Hi everybody

So just for the update last week I visited psychological/HIV specialist. He did not also believed in my risk exposure as I tried to describe. Agreed you had NO risk of HIV. So I was so far diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and put on antidepressants. I belive thats your health issue and hope the medication works. But he also mentioned that the tests are not 100% reliable HIV testss are 99.89% realiable, in medical terms thats 100%. No test can ever be 100%. Besides, you have tested many times, your HIV status is sound. anyway and told that I should talk to my girlfriend and take her for testing. I told her and she answered that I am crazy and she does not want the speak about this concern again. Also doctor ordered other test ( not HIV) like biochemistry test and complete blood screen. I called him last Friday and he told me that blood screen is still not there but results of bio is:

Glucose level - normal, diabetes excluded
Tsh hormone - normal, autoimmune dis excluded
Creatin level - normal, kidney function considered as ok
Cholesterol - little higher, I expected
Bilirubin, sat, alt - liver function, told that it is excellent may be hepatitis excluded

BUT I called him today I asked about blood screen and he told me that i should come anytime next week and he wants to discuss it personally and I do not have order myself which is weird. No,its quite normal, even to tell you their is nothing wrong.

I am still scared, antidepressants work little but oral thrush is still persistent and swolen nodes in my neck are still present. I need to solve this ASAP Then forget about HIV and will find the correct path to your answer as HIV is not it for you. The doctor is on the correct path with your mental health and i think that is your problem and maybe just a common viral infection that can run you down. So buddy, if you carry on this road of HIV your misses will just leave you and the doctors will ignore you and in the end you will belive your status, but all to late.
Best of luck in sorting this and im sure in time all will be fine once you work with your doctor
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