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Old 10-19-2011, 08:25 AM   #1
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HIV from rubbing vagina penis (frottage)

was getting a private lap dance. The female dancer noticed my penis was hard and started masturbating me (we practiced mutual masturbation and also kissed for a couple of minutes). She later grabbed my penis and rubbed against her vagina (which it was wet) for about 2-3secs. I freaked out and pushed her off. I was not wearing protection but my penis was exposed to her vaginal fluids. I'm sure not more than the head of my penis got in her vagina (rubbed against her labia). 3 days later I was sick (fatigue, swolen glands/tonsil, some coughing). The doctor diagnosed me with sinus infection gave me a shot and anti-biotics for 10days. I felt a little better, but then 2 weeks after the exposure I developed a sore throat, got one tiny white spot on my tongue and a little diarrhea that lasted 2days, went back to the doctor but he said that it was not strep throat, yet he gave me another shot and more abs. I did the oraquick test 3 weeks after exposure and came back negative and was told to take another test 3months after the exposure.

It's been 32 days since the exposure and I still have a minor sore throat, 98-99 tempeture/sweat at night, no rash (THANK GOD) but I'm freaking out!

What are the chances of getting HIV from penis/vagina frottage and her vaginal fluids getting in my urethra? Could it be Mono?

 
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Re: HIV from rubbing vagina penis (frottage)

Well your illness's were not HIV related or your test would have been positive. From what you say their is no risk of HIv from this. Ive never know anyone get HIV from this and i dont belive you will be the first. HIV dosnt live outside the host and is a very fradgile Virus. So doing what you said, as long as their was no penetration, then you didnt have any risk.

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Old 10-19-2011, 09:57 AM   #3
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Re: HIV from rubbing vagina penis (frottage)

If you penetrated her then you may have had an exposure. It is worth putting this in context for you. HIV is an extremely difficult virus to transmit and takes place when an unprotected penis is inside an anus or vagina. This generally requires a prolonged exposure and of course with somebody who is known to have HIV. You actually had the briefest of brief exposure, if any at all, with somebody who you have no idea if she had HIV. It is extremely unlikely; you would have contracted HIV from this extremely brief, if any, exposure. Nothing else you described put you anywhere near an HIV infection.

Your test, although slightly early gives a very indication that you did not contract HIV (almost all HIV infections are now detected between 2 to 6 weeks). For your own peace of mind you should test out to three months but to be honest it is simply for peace of mind. I would be amazed if you had contracted HIV from this.

And please stop the symptom chasing. The amount or lack of symptoms you may or may not have will have zero bearing on the outcome of an HIV test.

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Re: HIV from rubbing vagina penis (frottage)

Thanks, for the answer. I'm sorry but I'm freaking out! I'm going to get a std test and wait two more months to get another hiv test to be 100% sure. THANKS

 
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Re: HIV from rubbing vagina penis (frottage)

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Thanks, for the answer. I'm sorry but I'm freaking out! I'm going to get a std test and wait two more months to get another hiv test to be 100% sure. THANKS
just make sure you believe the results
when they come out negative...
good luck

 
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