Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help
Your issue is GUILT over the incident (and perhaps going to strip bars in general) but not HIV. I'm not suggesting that you should feel that way, but it is obvious from your posts that you have an issue with your behavior. Why not talk to a counselor about it? This will probably keep bothering you in some form unless you address the root of the matter. It is manifesting as fear of infecting your wife with HIV because that is the scariest scenario imaginable. Work on clearing your conscience and your HIV concerns will clear up also.
Last edited by joggen; 04-21-2012 at 02:10 PM.