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Old 10-29-2011, 04:50 AM   #1
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HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

Hi Folks,

I had a protected blow job yesterday. My worry is if it was a used condom, does it mean there has been an exposure??? My brain is in a battle right now.... HELP????

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

How can it be a used condom?? Even it were, which it wouldnt be as its unlikley to get over your penis, you still would not be at risk of HIV as anything that was on the condom ( HIV ) and thats only if it was, which is very unlikley, would have been exposed to the air and would be neutralised straight away, so not risk of HIV
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Old 10-29-2011, 05:37 AM   #3
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

Thanks Apollo.

how long does it take for HIV to neutralize in open. She took it from her wallet and I dint see her stripping of any case and taking the condom out. Do you think keeping it outside the case will also kill HIV.

Is there a chance that her saliva would get into the condom and then any exposure???

-Thanks in Advance.

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

Buddy, you have some real issues regarding HIV paranoia, like your last two threads.

Why would she have an old condom in her wallet, its a stupid idea and just would not happen.

Saliva is no risk of HIV either.

Hiv only last seconds outside the body, so what ever bizzare thoughts are going on in your head, then worry not about HIV, you just would not get it from this.

I think you should see somone for your mental state regarding HIV, because this is just not normal anymore, so please try and get some help.
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

Thanks Apollo....SInce you have assured me..... Thank agin...

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

No problem, have great weekend
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

you should educate yourself about hiv better!
it would go a long way to helping your overactive imagination.

oral sex is not a route to getting infected with hiv.
so even if you did NOT use a condom,
you still would have no risk of getting hiv from oral sex.

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom..Please help

Actually...my concern is more on used condom Smiteler....

I was just thinking what if she used the same condom....again to give a bj

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

Why would she do that? Any girl would find it about the most disgusting thing they could do to carry around a used rubber. Yick.

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

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Why would she do that? Any girl would find it about the most disgusting thing they could do to carry around a used rubber. Yick.
But do you think even carrying around a used condom which has HIV Exposed to it.... And then using it on an other person can cause that person to an exposure..... It was nearly 15 minutes that she had it in her bag ....before she put it on me

Also after I reached my climax I pulled out the condom out.....do you think when I was removing the condom the silava on the condom could have gotten into the urethra....and any exposure.....

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

It still would not be a risk as HIV does not live outside the host, i already told you that. What part of HIV does not live outside the host do you not understand?
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

thanks Apollo....I cannot stress the importance of you guys support.....

That being said....do you think I should get tested//// the same thing keeps going around in my mind..... I can hardly stay idle without thinking about it...

Can you also tell me....what are the standard/common ways...HIV is spread or one is exposed to it??? -Thanks again and again.

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

sexually, the ways you get infected are by
unprotected anal or vaginal sex.
almost all infections happen inside the body.
oral sex is not a valid risk
and you have no reason for testing.

 
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That being said....do you think I should get tested//// the same thing keeps going around in my mind..... I can hardly stay idle without thinking about it...

Can you also tell me....what are the standard/common ways...HIV is spread or one is exposed to it??? -Thanks again and again.
I would not even have the thought of HIV on my mind after that kind of encounter, let alone getting tested for it. There is no need to worry or be tested over this buddy. Trust us, we would tell you if you had even the slightest risk. You had zero risk of HIV from this, even had she re-used a rubber, the virus dies outside the human body very quickly. It is a weak virus, the temp difference and air would kill it in no time.

You are exposed to it and it is spread through unprotected vaginal or anal sex and needles.

 
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Re: HIV BJ* used condom. Please help

I think smit has answered your question, but just to add, really its time to stop this worry about HIV in everytime you have sexual contact. If you use logic you will see HIV is no mystery and unless you have unprotected sex then its just not a concern for you.
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