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Old 11-06-2011, 11:22 AM   #1
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i am really scared. I went to a lap dance where it lasted for about 10 min roughly .

Please help me as i am dying of fear and if not of aids will die of a heart ttack. Thanks in advance.

I had my latest test 2 days ago that is 128 th day from incident. My question is a bit technical so please mind my ignorance.
The name of the test i got was infectious diseases: HIV Combo(p24Ag,HIV1Ab,HIV2Ab),Serum by CMIA.

The observed value : Negative (0.2)

Biological Reference Interval :Negative : Less than or equal to 1.00 Index.
 
I have been doing these tests regularly and the values are increasing like I did on the 30th day from incident it came negative 0.08
Then on the 45th day it came negative 0.12
Then it came 0.18 on the 90th day and now it came 0.2 on the 128th day.
Does these have any significance, I mean I hope its not increasing and one day it will go above 1 and I will be positive. (Question one)
Also the long time war weather to get tested on the 3 month mark or 6 month mark remains. (Question2)
Plus one more thing I have noticed I have lost around 4 to 5 kgs from the date of incident which is 128 days ago. I am guessing that's not any symptoms right? (Question3)

Thanks in advance please help sir , I am to get married asap , but have held it up as I don't want to ruin another life

 
Old 11-07-2011, 04:07 AM   #2
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Re: confused

you need to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex to
be at any risk of catch hiv.
what you did was NO risk for hiv!
you are wasting your time testing
or even worrying about this incident.
move on and do not waste another min of your life
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Old 11-07-2011, 04:13 AM   #3
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Re: confused

Im not sure where your risk was and why you tested..Did you have unprotected sex?

Your test is 100% conclusive, you do not have HIV. As for the value changing, dont worry thats normal. If you had a blood count today, then next week, they would change as well. Its a biological thing, so nothing to worry about.

As for the weight loss, probley stress from the guilt, but as for HIV no chance in a millions years

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Re: confused

You really need to stop testing buddy. You have already tested 100% conclusive negative, you do not have HIV. I am not even sure why you believe you were even at risk. Regardless of your risk, even if you had one, you have not got HIV.

The reason you need to stop testing is because if you continue to over test you do run the possibility you will get a false positive (you will test positive when you are negative). Please stop this and put this to bed. You are 100% HIV negative.

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Re: confused

Dear sr this is the first tme i am writing about the incident , i am really scared. I went to a lap dance where it lasted for about 10 min roughly . the first 5 min she had her panties on. the next 5 min she was completely naked, i always had my jeans on and remember cummng in my pants verywell, but i fell maybe my penis slipped up my jeans and maybe she touched her vagina to it. i dnt knw if she was wet or no.but i guess a lap dancer is a professional and wont be wet . sir /mam wht if by chance maybe she was wet and happen to touch the tip of my uncurmsized dick? am i at risk. Please help me as i am dying of fear and if not of aids will die of a heart attack. Thanks in advance.

 
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Re: confused

Also i feel she cant keep beiing wet, even if she was the fiirst 5 min she would have rubbed it off my jeans and t shirt and the next 5 min what may be the odds of her being wet and touchng the tip of my penis which slipped up from my jeans. but i am thinking about the worst case secanrieo.

 
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Re: confused

You need to educate yourself on how HIV is transmitted. You have absolutely nothing to worry about from any type of lap dance. Stop trying to think of worst case scenarios, that is simply your anxiety thinking.

Even if you had a real risk- like unprotected sex- you had a 100% conclusive HIV test. You do not have HIV.

 
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Re: confused

Ok thanks a lot for hearing me out.
So from this converstaion I understand tht no matter wht risk 128 days test should be held as a 100 percent conclusive

 
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Re: confused

[QUOTE=amscared;4875185]Dear sr this is the first tme i am writing about the incident , i am really scared. I went to a lap dance where it lasted for about 10 min roughly . the first 5 min she had her panties on. the next 5 min she was completely naked, i always had my jeans on and remember cummng in my pants verywell, but i fell maybe my penis slipped up my jeans

Why would that happen, was it by magic, then it popped back in by itself?

Really buddy, your mind is running away with your imagination and fueled by guilt. My last post on this thread.

You didnt have a risk, the above didnt happen and your guilt is your issue here certainly not HIV is anyway or form..
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Re: confused

Ok so I take it as no matter wht the risk is , a 128 day test can me held as 100 percent conclusive right?
Thanks

 
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Re: confused

promise once answered i wont bother u ppl again...
i just need to know no matter what the risk is , even if its unprotected sex with a person with hiv + , once tested negetive at 128 days , is to be held as negative , conclusively?
thanks
god bless u ppl

 
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Re: confused

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Ok so I take it as no matter wht the risk is , a 128 day test can me held as 100 percent conclusive right?
Thanks
100% correct, what ever you did, even unprotected sex, the HIV test will always confirm your status and in your case your certainly HIV negative
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Re: confused

Thanks people for your promt replies . I though fail to understand why do some sites and some forums still say that a 6 months window period is held as conclusive?
People are still confused at large.
This website ruled out any possiblity at 128 days , what's the truth though

 
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Re: confused

No idea why they do. Its outdated. The CDC is still 12 weeks and thats what and any decent forum go on, although many experts will say 6 weeks is as good as 12, but 12 weeks is the standard. So you can be 100% sure your fine
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Old 11-07-2011, 12:14 PM   #15
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Re: confused

The name of the test i got was infectious diseases: HIV Combo(p24Ag,HIV1Ab,HIV2Ab),Serum by CMIA.
Is this test reasonable enough ? In india , where I am , they recommend this. Is this a 4th generation test ?

 
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