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Old 02-02-2012, 03:00 AM   #1
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Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Hi i have written before and was told oral wasnt able to contract hiv , its been 8 weeks sice my encounter , rotected sex but unrotected oral i gave to sex worker in eastern euroe .
Since ive had oral thrsh which came
About 12 hours after encounter.
My gland in neck has been swollen for 6 weeks , thought my
Groin was too but doctors said tey cant feek any there,
But for kast few days ivr had a dosgey stomach just maybe once a day a bit of
A watery stool bit smelly en all . Duno if ive lost weight arna kook a kittke skinnier n my neck , but cud b worry although havent changed
My
Diet which has always been a bad so
Wudnt of Thought i cud koose weight.
Im worried big time and any feedback wud be great .
I know some guys have said theres no risk from oral but all these symotoms are really starting to
Scare me major .

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Still no risk of HIV, but if your concerned then take a HIV test and collect your negative results
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Old 02-02-2012, 05:39 AM   #3
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Thanks for comments man , yeah goin doctors tommorrow to arrange something , hoefulky all b ok !

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

There is no risk from oral .

If you are still nervous, take the test and see what the result is. Be expecting a negative.

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

There is no risk from oral .

If you are still nervous, take the test and see what the result is. Be expecting a negative.

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Yeah man i will , just freaks me out having all these symotoms after it , dont make sense to me !

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Yeah I've been there . But I doubt you would have thought twice if you had these same symptoms sans the oral sex, right? Its good to get the test result though so you can see it in writing.......

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Sorry think i get what you mean , cudnt make out that one word sans ?
But yeah im getting my blood done early
Next week , seeing doctor today , fingers crossed its all fine !
Thanks
For the Comments , ill try letting you know what results they find !

 
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Re: Scared big time , Would like any thoughts , thanks

Sans means without

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

Hi i too am worried sick about this , after rradig your story it has given me
Some faith i will be ok , i had given oral
Sex To a woman who wud be a high risk i guess, ad next mornin had white tongue n aore throat , sore throat went after a day or two but thrush continued , an from Then on feel ive had every thing in the book within the timelies stated on most sites, i had cbc last week
Which came back fine this is 9 weeks after the incident , so next thing is doctors on monday to book more blood tests , im so so scared about testing for this because i feel i dont want an answer that will kill me that amswer being + .
This forum has given me a lot of faith and understanding , i just really want a good Outcome of this n ill never be sad or moody again everyday is a gift n i wud love mine to be knowing im - from here on out !
Much love to all

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

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Hi i too am worried sick about this , after rradig your story it has given me
Some faith i will be ok , i had given oral
Sex To a woman who wud be a high risk i guess, ad next mornin had white tongue n aore throat , sore throat went after a day or two but thrush continued , an from Then on feel ive had every thing in the book within the timelies stated on most sites, i had cbc last week
Which came back fine this is 9 weeks after the incident , so next thing is doctors on monday to book more blood tests , im so so scared about testing for this because i feel i dont want an answer that will kill me that amswer being + .
This forum has given me a lot of faith and understanding , i just really want a good Outcome of this n ill never be sad or moody again everyday is a gift n i wud love mine to be knowing im - from here on out !
Much love to all
Oral sex is not a risk for HIV, so you have no need to worry of it. Symptoms cannot diagnose HIV.

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

Thanks for the comments , but ive read on many sites that thwre is a small
Risk I know i dsnt have any sores or cuts in my mouth although
I have a lip piercing and i wonder if that cud b a reason for
Concern , the reason im
Worried so much is because oral thrush ive had doesnt seem
To clear up since, i pray im Ok ,
And any one else worrying is as well

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

the risk you are reading about is only theroretical
nobody has ever been reported and confirmed as being
infected that way.
you will not be the first one...

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

Alright cheers but why am i havin all these symptoms ? Oral thrush is only in those with hiv n diabetes aint it ? Thats y i been so scared n my gland in neck seems to be swollen for a month. .
And literally just had a sort stingin nettle rash come up on me arm and two red odd shaped ones on my lower stomach , i jusy feel like goin mental .

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

this is why you should be working with a doctor
when you have unexplained symptoms.
what you are discribing could be caused
by too many things to list here.

from what you say, hiv is one of the things
you should of ruled out already.
people do not get infected by it thru oral sex.
so your focus should be totally in another direction
and a doctor is the best way to choosing what to explore for.

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

I am currentky seeing t doctor
Had a cbc which was fine , so why do i have oral thrush ? And glands , literally 3 weeks after the exposure !

Thanks for ur input and everything , i pray im ok , it just seems to much of a coincedence !

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

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Alright cheers but why am i havin all these symptoms ? Oral thrush is only in those with hiv n diabetes aint it ? Thats y i been so scared n my gland in neck seems to be swollen for a month. .
And literally just had a sort stingin nettle rash come up on me arm and two red odd shaped ones on my lower stomach , i jusy feel like goin mental .
Oral sex is ZERO risk, so it is impossible for anything to be from HIV. Do you have any idea how many hundreds upon hundreds of people that have come to this forum saying "what about these symptoms X weeks after the incident"? Every one of them then tests negative after weeks and weeks of horrible anxiety because they do not listen to what is said here.

Oral thrush existed long before HIV, and is not isolated to any disease. Oral thrush is also caused by the same fungus that causes vaginal yeast infectiosn...now would that not seem like a far more reasonable cause of it, especially considered there has been NOT ONE verified case of HIV cause by oral sex? Glands swell all the time and mean nothing, you may not have even noticed half this crap if you weren't freaked out thinking you have HIV.

LISTEN to the people here. Oral sex is not a risk. Your only other choice is to freak yourself to death for several more weeks, then test and have the result come out exactly as we said it would.

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

Ok thanks , just worried so much and hard to Believe ill b negative , wud a lip piercing b anything to worry about ?
I feel like the glands in My groin are swollen too mainly when driving so more to panick about .
And when u say never been an infection from oral , seems odd.

By the way im a bloke so wouldnt know about vaginal thrush .
Thanks for your comments

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

Also when we say oral does putting ur tongue inside the vagina still pose no risk ?

 
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Re: NEARLY EVERY ARS SYMPTOM IN THE BOOK! A love letter to all the worried wells...

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Also when we say oral does putting ur tongue inside the vagina still pose no risk ?
that is correct.

the mouth is a very harsh environment for hiv
to the point that it will block the infection from getting into you.

most if not all infections will happen from a blood to blood transfer
meaning the blood of the host is somehow introduced into the bloodstream
of another person.
this will mainly happen thru micrscopic tears thru the skin
from friction during unprotected intercourse.

the only way oral sex could even be a possible risk
is if there was visable blood every where and a open BLEEDING cut on you.
was this the case with you??
i don't think anyone would have any sex under that circumstance
unless they were insane or mindless........

 
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