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Old 04-23-2012, 08:07 AM   #1
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HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

I gave this to an unknown guy, im going to get tested on wednesday, i've had a variety of things to concern me of having HIV. - there was no *** or pre ***.
* a rash
* sore arm pits
Im so scared..

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Old 04-23-2012, 08:21 AM   #2
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

what is the time between the time of intercourse and time of test..isn't it early?

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

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what is the time between the time of intercourse and time of test..isn't it early?
its been 3 months

 
Old 04-23-2012, 08:27 AM   #4
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

Go and don't mess to tell us the result. was it unprotected?

 
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Go and don't mess to tell us the result. was it unprotected?
yeh it was, he told me he was STI free, just those things kind of freaked me out

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

Oral sex is not a risk for HIV infection, unprotected or not. You did not have an exposure and don't need testing.

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

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oral sex is not a risk for hiv infection, unprotected or not. You did not have an exposure and don't need testing.
100%?

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

If it wasn't I wouldn't be telling you.

 
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If it wasn't I wouldn't be telling you.
how are you so sure?

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

Because I know the stance the expert doctors take on oral sex.

Look, this isn't a debate. I've given you my risk assessment- whether you want to believe me or not is up to you.

 
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100%?
Yes,

If you have issues accepting this advice, the answer is very simple. Have an HIV test, collect your inevitable negative result and get on with your life.

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Old 04-23-2012, 09:48 AM   #12
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Yes,

If you have issues accepting this advice, the answer is very simple. Have an HIV test, collect your inevitable negative result and get on with your life.

Kevin.
Just called terrence higgins, they said it carries a 0.4% rate of getting HIV through oral (negligible), so would you say my chances of having HIV are certain?

 
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Just called terrence higgins, they said it carries a 0.4% rate of getting HIV through oral (negligible), so would you say my chances of having HIV are certain?
0.4 % risk from somone who may have HIV 0.56%. Do the maths but you have a better change of being struck my lighting whilst your dancing with madona in McDonalds.

Although we can look at it this way. In 30 years their are no reported cases of HIV transmission via oral sex, as both Kevin and Joggen have made clear. Their have been many surveys on couples where one has HIV the other dosnt, and they continue to have a full sex life with kissing oral sex ( without protection ) and protected sex. None of the negative people became positive

^^ this alone should give you enough confidence to to understand oral sex not a risk mate, let alone the 1000's of oral threads ive seen.
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0.4 % risk from somone who may have HIV 0.56%. Do the maths but you have a better change of being struck my lighting whilst your dancing with madona in McDonalds.

Although we can look at it this way. In 30 years their are no reported cases of HIV transmission via oral sex, as both Kevin and Joggen have made clear. Their have been many surveys on couples where one has HIV the other dosnt, and they continue to have a full sex life with kissing oral sex ( without protection ) and protected sex. None of the negative people became positive

^^ this alone should give you enough confidence to to understand oral sex not a risk mate, let alone the 1000's of oral threads ive seen.
So when I have my test on Friday, do you think it will definitley come back with NEGATIVE results?!

 
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Re: HIV from oral (recieving and giving)

If you have never had unprotected sex then i think my post is quite clear, but yes mate
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