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Old 07-23-2012, 10:14 AM   #1
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Hello Friends, hope you all are doing well.
I had sex twice in my lifetime whic is using the condom (vaginal only£.
They are Chinese and Thai escorts in uk.
I don't know their health status.
Upto best of my knowledge , I know condom didn't tear. ( assuming if the condom gets ripped apart it would be clearly visible. I didn't inspect in a minute manner).
I got I know that vaginal fluids carries HIV virus ( if they were infected).
Does that fluid flows out? I had a healed would ( no open cut - would got healed just mark was there some 3-4 cm above my penis.
Also the Thai escort used dettol and cleaned areas around my penis.
Initially I thought it was a part of safe sex.
However I am suspicious that she may have HIV.
This happened some 11 days ago.
Planning to get it tested after 28 days.
What would be my probability of gettin an HIV.
I couldn't concentrate on my work and lost all my interest in loving.
No symptoms apart from headache and slightly swollen lynph gland which may be due to depression. Still worried as HIV cannot be confirmed by symptoms.

What is the possibility of acquiring HIV with using condoms?
I had sex only twice in my life time with the two escorts stated above.
I am basically a very scares and nervous person.

 
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Old 07-23-2012, 10:23 AM   #2
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Re: Depressed and scared of HIV

Hi,

Buddy your chances of contracting HIV when a condom covers your penis and does not fail is zero. You were not exposed to an HIV infection and have no HIV concerns.

Kevin.

 
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Old 07-23-2012, 10:24 AM   #3
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Re: Depressed and scared of HIV

Condoms are 100% safe when used correctly by that if your penis head is covered. As yours was you have nothing to worry about at all. Nothing that you have said would give any concern to being exposed to HIV.

Also, its very very unlikley they have HIV. CSW get tested for HIV and std's to know their status, they also use condoms to protect themselves from you.

As for testing, well you didnt have any risk of HIV so you dont need to test at all.

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Old 07-23-2012, 11:56 AM   #4
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Many thanks for your response. You response really made me to feel better and confident. I thank you whole heartedly. Thanks again

 
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