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Old 10-07-2012, 07:03 PM   #1
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Protected sex but afraid..

Hye all,

i had a protected sex with prostitute 25/9/2012. no oral sex. only penatration.. it not lasting for 2 minutes and i ejaculate in condom.. because this is my first time.. please i really2 nervous.. can i get infected???
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Old 10-07-2012, 07:29 PM   #2
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

you will not get hiv when you use a condom
find something better to focus on
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Old 10-07-2012, 07:32 PM   #3
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

should i test? nowday are they use latex condom?

 
Old 10-07-2012, 07:36 PM   #4
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

i repeat again
you will not get hiv if you use a condom.

why would you even think of testing for it?

 
Old 10-07-2012, 07:40 PM   #5
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

sorry smiteler....

i afraid to much, and scared to touch my wife.. thats why i asking like this.. sorry.. thanks for ur replied.. God bless You..

 
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

you do not have to be sorry
first hand
i got infected by an ex gf
i was with her for over a year
i had sex withe her over 300 times using a condom every time.
the first time i did not use a condom
i got infected..
it was not a coincidence,
if you use a condom, you will not get infected with hiv.

it sounds like you more need to work on guilt issues
then worry about something (hiv) that simply
isn't going to happen..

 
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Old 10-07-2012, 08:03 PM   #7
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

yes, that true.. every time i was thinking about my wife and fell guilt.. my hand always wet every time i thinking about this.. thanks for ur reply.. really2 appreciate.

 
Old 10-13-2012, 06:53 AM   #8
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

guy, please calm me down.. do ever hear someone use condom and then get hiv.. please help me...

 
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

Of course not, its impossible to get HIV using a condom. Guilt is your issue here not HIV.

You made a mistake, you just have to move on and forget about this.
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

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guy, please calm me down.. do ever hear someone use condom and then get hiv.. please help me...
hiv infections do not happen when you use a condom.
i even gave you a first hand example of it.

move on from it and put it past you.
if that becomes too hard,then seek professional help to deal
with your guilt issues..
you might need to talk it out with someone.
good luck

 
Old 10-13-2012, 08:18 AM   #11
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

i do rapid test 10 day after that, and it become negative.. should i wait 6 week?? i dont know what to do.. im very sure that i ejaculate inside the condom... can i rely on this test?

 
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Re: Protected sex but afraid..

any hiv test you take will be negative.
you have been told as to why.
to continue on this path is not logical
stop beating a dead horse!

 
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