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Old 11-20-2012, 01:42 AM   #1
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stupid mistake

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Hello guys!!

im a married man , just to make it simple and short,

I have had protected sex with prostitute on 40 day ago... no anal, no kissing , no oral.. just vaginal intercouse around 2 minutes.. as i said the sex was protected. this is first time in my life doing this except for my wife.. yea, i know i cheated on my wife .. i dont know how to avoid my wife doing unprotected sex..

38 day after exposure went to clinic and take elisa blood test, and thank god.. Negative.. guys should i retest ? my result rock solid enough?
now i feel weird sensation in my body.. is that anxiety?

please give me advise in logic and medical science...

Thanks,

Tharan

 
Old 11-20-2012, 01:46 AM   #2
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Re: stupid mistake

you had protected sex, you were not at risk of hiv.
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Old 11-20-2012, 01:54 AM   #3
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Re: stupid mistake

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made mistake


Hello guys!!

im a married man , just to make it simple and short,

I have had protected sex with prostitute on 40 day ago... no anal, no kissing , no oral.. just vaginal intercouse around 2 minutes.. as i said the sex was protected. this is first time in my life doing this except for my wife.. yea, i know i cheated on my wife .. i dont know how to avoid my wife doing unprotected sex..

38 day after exposure went to clinic and take elisa blood test, and thank god.. Negative.. guys should i retest ? my result rock solid enough?
now i feel weird sensation in my body.. is that anxiety?

please give me advise in logic and medical science...

Thanks,

Tharan
You have absolutely nothing to worry about! We all make mistakes, but it's how we learn from them that makes us a better person.

 
Old 11-20-2012, 03:43 AM   #4
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Re: stupid mistake

so i am worryng over nothing? how accurate my result? do i need to test again for 3month? or just forget about this and move on with my life...

 
Old 11-20-2012, 04:02 AM   #5
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Re: stupid mistake

You were not at risk of HIV, so your tests are 100% conclusive and you do not need to test again.

Condoms are 100% safe in the protection against HIV transmission, so you will not be at risk when you use them.
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Old 11-20-2012, 05:07 AM   #6
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Re: stupid mistake

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You were not at risk of HIV, so your tests are 100% conclusive and you do not need to test again.

Condoms are 100% safe in the protection against HIV transmission, so you will not be at risk when you use them.
thanks Apollo123 for that advise, ill do my best to forget about this.
Reread ur reply make me relax..

Thanks,

Tharan.

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Old 11-25-2012, 07:59 AM   #7
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hye.. i just want to know conclusive result is 84 day or 90? im sorry because cant stop doing searching the net.. i read almost 1 to 100 thread about hiv effection here and no one get infected from safe sex (used condom).. apollo123 im sorry for coming back here..

 
Old 11-25-2012, 08:16 AM   #8
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Re: stupid mistake

correct, you wont see anyone getting hiv from protected sex, its impossible. Also its very unlikley the other person had hiv anyway. Hiv is still rare and a one time unprotected sex even if they have hiv is still unlikley to be passed on.

So your test is 100% accurate.
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Old 11-25-2012, 08:31 AM   #9
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Re: stupid mistake

thanks apollo 4 ur support. just worry for my wife not for me... just print screen ur reply and keep read it , i know my issue is guilt and not hiv..

 
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Re: stupid mistake

No problem chap, take care.
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Old 12-08-2012, 11:10 PM   #11
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Re: stupid mistake

apollo my last question. can hep b transmit if we use condom?

 
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Re: stupid mistake

No buds, you would be fine.
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