Originally Posted by midaz41
hi I know I'm probably been irrational but refused to have sex with my wife last night for fear of infecting her with HIV despite your advice. Made the mistake of googling the subject last night and this only added to my paranoia . Are you sure I don't need a test even though the condom was used and intact during my brief encounter? What if the prostitute I was with was HIV+? Sorry again for keeping this going. Going a bit demented over it.
Buddy, HIV boards do not cater to what if scenarios. You can only be offered facts here. The facts are that you had protected sex was not exposed to HIV even if
she had HIV.
Nor is there any "other side” of the debate. Protected sex protects you against an HIV infection. Let this drop, stop letting this rule and ruin your life and get on with your life, really.