Precum and Risk
So on Saturday night my girfriend was out of town still and I was feeling pretty horny. I was drunk from going out and when I got home I for whatever reason decided to find a random guy on craigslist and meet up with him. This was a first time experience for me. I met up with another guy whose girlfriend was also out of town, and we exchanged blowjobs. I was only sucking on his for less then 3 minutes but I did taste what I would say was precum. Im not sure how much it would have been though. And we did not ejaculate into each others mouths. So I am worrying myself sick about contracting a STD. I know this was such a dumb decision and I have no idea why I decided to go through with it, I am a very safe person normally. I asked him multiple times if he had been tested, and he said yes he had before Thanksgiving break. And he also said he had 4 other male partners he had been with but it had been awhile. So thats what makes me worry. I also have been experiencing bleeding gums for some reason even though I take care of my mouth, so I dont know if that is an extra factor. I didnt floss or brush before going.
Now my girlfriend is back in town, and I dont want to have sex with her or touch her because I am worried I would pass something on to her which sucks. I feel like I should wait to get tested first but I keep reading you have to wait awhile to be sure. Im pretty sure if I wait that long she wont be very happy. She knows I was with someone as we are in an open relationship, but its normally only with close friends that we know are clean. I guess Im asking what are my chances of contracting HIV from this encounter? and what are my chances of getting any other STD?
So I did call CDC and talk to a lady on the phone, who basically scared me more. She went on and on about how you could get it and never gave me any type of percentage.