Possible exposure could it be HIV please help
About three weeks ago I had a possible exposure, the guy was about to insert me unprotected. I told him no and to go get a condom. He insisted he was clean and didn't have anything. I stood my ground and so he went to the next room to get a condom. While he was putting it on I was not looking at him so I'm not sure if he put it on or not. About five minutes into sexual intercourse something came up and I had to leave. Exactly, two days later I became sick for about 12 hours. I had chills, swollen lymph nodes in the neck, cough, fever, headache and tummy ache. Around 11pm that night the symptoms faded, everything but the cough which lasted about the next four to five days.
My question is, would a decent guy totally disregard a women's wishes and pretend to put a condom on? Also "if" I was exposed to anything I was only exposed to his pre *** "maybe". So what are my chances catching HIV. This was also my only sex act with the person and does this sound like typical ARS symptoms? Worried sick and scared, please help.
P.s. I plan on testing at the 6week mark as well as the 3 month