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Old 02-12-2013, 05:01 PM   #1
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Hiv ?

Hi, I recently had protected sex with a woman both orally and vaginally. After vaginal sex, she went on to give me a handjob. In doing so the condom ripped/broke, I finished myself off and cleaned up and took a shower. Is there a likely risk I have got myself infected?

Is it possible that vaginal fluid on the condom may have given me HIV?

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Old 02-12-2013, 07:45 PM   #2
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Re: Hiv ?

ZERO risk for HIV here buddy. Protected sex is just that, protected....thumbs up for practicing it. It is impossible to get HIV from a hand job, so the broken condom is irrelevant.

There is not even a reason to test for HIV for this incident, so move on and be happy and continue the safe sex .

 
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Re: Hiv ?

yup,
move on and find better things to
occupy yourself with.

 
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Old 02-13-2013, 07:05 AM   #4
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Re: Hiv ?

Is there any chance that... if there were a HIV virus outside of condom, it could infect me after the condom broke because I continued to masturbate so it may have infected me?

 
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No chance at all.
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Old 02-13-2013, 06:26 PM   #6
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No chance at all.
Hi thanks for replying, I just would like to understand why it would not be possible to get infected? Just need to make sense of it in my head, sorry.

I keep re-running it in my head and imagine the HIV on the outside of the condom after the vaginal sex, which the enters me after the condom ripped when she was giving me a handjob.

 
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Re: Hiv ?

Condoms are 100% safe when used, they are a protective layer around your penis.
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Old 02-15-2013, 08:42 AM   #8
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Re: Hiv ?

So what I'm inferring from all of this is that, in order to get HIV my penis had to either be in her vagina/mouth/anus. The fact that I was receiving a handjob is irrelevant since my penis was not inside?

So whether there was HIV present on my penis during the handjob, it would still not infect me?

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Re: Hiv ?

Its simlple. Unprotected sex with penetration to the Vagina or anus is the only way to be at risk of HIV, nothing else.
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Old 02-15-2013, 10:26 AM   #10
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Re: Hiv ?

Hi, I'm really sorry for being such a nuisance but this is the last time I post lol thankyou for being so helpful. So even if there were vaginal fluids which contained HIV on the condom that ripped and some of it got on my penis that was then handjobbed, it doesn't pose a risk?

 
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Re: Hiv ?

HIV, despite the fear it generates, is an extremely fragile virus. It will only ever pose a risk of an infection within the confines of the human body, which is the only place it remains infectious. Once exposed to air it instantly becomes non-viable (non-infectious). Bodily fluid outside the confines of the human body poses zero risk of an infection. You will only ever be at a risk of an HIV infection, sexually, when an unprotected penis is inside an anus or vagina.

In the entire thirty plus years HIV has been around nobody, not a single person, as ever contracted HIV from hand to genital contact, regardless of the extra details.

You were nowhere near a risk of an HIV infection, period.

Kevin.

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