Re: My Husband has very low testosterone and I am scared!!
Lynn2323: I know your post is older, but ... I have never posted on a site like this before, but I was online researching and looking for support. My husband is also 34 and has extremely low t (130 is his level - 300 is the normal low). He is tired all the time, he always looks bloated, he can't focus, he is mean verbally, and he never wants to be intimate. Which is difficult because we are trying to conceive baby #2. I can totally relate to what you are going through. My husband had all his blood work and semen analysis and everything is fine. His doctor didn't order an MRI because he said that there was no indication of any problems. I was scared through the whole process. Different doctors and lots of waiting for results. I hope that everything is fine with your husband and no major health issues were found (besides the LT)
If all is ok --- i just want to offer advice. If the two of you plan on children I warn you that any medications, which his doctor may suggest are not good for sperm. All of those drugs will kill the sperm and render him infertil. My husband and I opted to continue trying and after pregnant and past 1st trimester to have he go on something. We don't have the money to store his sperm and try IVF later. It has been hell, since it is taking forever to get pregnant. I feel alone and I'm loosing what strength I had to deal with this. I just want my husband back, but we want that baby too.
I hope you and your husband are doing well. If you need someone to talk to that is in the same boat as you, I would like to be that someone. Maybe we can get each other through this time.
Be well. Be strong.