- HPV - and more, please help!!! - Human Papillomavirus (HPV) Message Board

Kastro2 · 06-25-2004, 03:57 PM

Hi there. Going to be a long post, so if you have the time to help a good person it would be appreciated.

Ok, ill make this as short, but detailed, as possible. Met a girl a month and a half ago at a club, exchanged numbers, met up a couple times, before we started going out she sat me down and told me she has HPV (Venarial disease or something like that..), she gave me some slick story on how her doc says as long as she'll stay healthy it stays mild and that she hasn't had any physical warts in months and blah blah...

Anyway, one night after drinking a bit too much we slept together, I used a condom (thank god) but I still remember feeling bumps on the inside of her vagina (was it HPV?). I broke up with her a couple days after that because I was worried about it...

Now about a month and a half later I am getting these red spots on the outside of my penis, they feel sore like a pimple (hopefully they are pimples) and when I applied pressure on one of them and a whiteish fluid came out (like a pimple)..Do I have it, is this HPV???? They are forming more and more, so I am worried, or maybe its the increase in cholesterol I have had lately from my diet?

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Also, what if this girl had AIDS or something and didnt tell me? Im so worried, I cant tell anyone because it will ruin my reputation, I feel so upset I wanna find that girl and kill her.....I dont know why at the moment I didnt really care I just wanted to have sex, its not till now that I get worried and im like "what the hell did I do?"

Also, I performed a bit of oral sex on her mildly, will I get oral HPV now?.. man im so scared someone giv e me some words of advice please!!

rebekkabobekka · 06-26-2004, 10:51 PM

My advice to you would be go to the doctor..it's better to know than not know...you also have to realize that HPV is passed from skin to skin contact..meaning if you use a condom you can still get HPV... I personally don't know anyone who has oral HPV..thats not to say people don't.. I have dealt with this virus in my life for ALOT of years..and it does supress it's self..with proper treatment and all...I don't mean to scare you even more..but if you are breaking out with anything on your genitals I think it is wise to consult your doctor for some testing..just to be safe.. As far as you wanting to find her and getting all upset with her I don't agree with...because you said yourself that she told you that she had HPV.... so what you chose to do with what she told you was a mutual decision... Can you imagine how she felt even telling you to start with?? it's very hard to come out and tell anyone... So, in short..no one can tell you if you have anything..we can try to ease your mind..and comfort you..but to get an actual ease of mind you need to see your doctor...sorry I can't be of more help!
Bekka

CobaltBlue · 06-27-2004, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Kastro2

before we started going out she sat me down and told me she has HPV (Venarial disease or something like that..), she gave me some slick story on how her doc says as long as she'll stay healthy it stays mild and that she hasn't had any physical warts in months and blah blah...

At least she was honest--always something you would hope for. You sure she didn't mean HSV?

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I still remember feeling bumps on the inside of her vagina (was it HPV?). I broke up with her a couple days after that because I was worried about it...

Extremely unlikely whether HSV or HPV

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Now about a month and a half later I am getting these red spots on the outside of my penis, they feel sore like a pimple (hopefully they are pimples) and when I applied pressure on one of them and a whiteish fluid came out (like a pimple)..Do I have it, is this HPV???? They are forming more and more, so I am worried, or maybe its the increase in cholesterol I have had lately from my diet?

A portion of what you describe sounds like HPV, except the pimple and fluid part, which is more consistent with the way HSV manifests itself in some. When you are saying more and more, do you mean over the past month? Do you mean that they just started forming a few days ago? Neither has anything to do with cholesterol, nor cholesterol intake from your diet.

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Also, what if this girl had AIDS or something and didnt tell me?

Don't we always take that risk, even if each get tested specifically for antibodies prior to engaging in sexual relations?

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Im so worried, I cant tell anyone because it will ruin my reputation, I feel so upset I wanna find that girl and kill her....I dont know why at the moment I didnt really care I just wanted to have sex, its not till now that I get worried and im like "what the hell did I do?"

It's not completely her fault, really. She was honest with you and you made a choice to have sex with her.

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Also, I performed a bit of oral sex on her mildly, will I get oral HPV now?.. man im so scared someone giv e me some words of advice please!!

Probably not. The best advice I can give you is the same as what Rebekka said, get an appt with your GP and have that person examine you, and possibly refer you to a specialist if needed.

Kastro2 · 06-27-2004, 12:13 PM

I think the bumps were pimples because they are going down now, and theres not really any more except a few small ones which I know are little pimples..

Its been about a month, im so worried i'll get cancer in the cervix or something, and how do I ask my doctor? Its so hard to do that...

And, is it possible sometimes for people to not get it by chance of luck due to strong bodies or something? I work out everyday and during the time I was seeing her we only had sex once and I was taking echinacea pills (immune system booster) throughout that time.

Thanks for the help guys, im not going to die from this thing am I?

rebekkabobekka · 06-27-2004, 02:01 PM

Unless I have missed something here..you are Male correct?? If so you can NOT get cervical cancer that I can gaurentee...you would need to have one first..It would still be a good idea to just go to the doctor and get the works..it's better safe than sorry...and if by chance you would have something it prevents others from contracting it...I am sure you'll be fine.. but the only way to know for sure is to get tested and becareful.. and remember condoms don't always protect against everything!
Bekka