Re: HPV a friend has. and im worried, and a question about me and orgasms.
1) HPV is contagious, but only through sexual contact. If she is only a friend, you will not be able to contract the virus from her. There is no cure for HPV, but it really isn't that big a deal. Some estimates say that up to 80% of the adult population in America has HPV, so it is quite common. If you want more info, you can head over to the STD board, or just use a search engine. There is a lot of good info on-line.
2) If you can orgasm by yourself, there is nothing physically wrong with you. It might be that you are not able to relax enough with someone else. Or you might just not be getting the type of stimulation you need from your partner. The good thing is that you know what you like, you just need to teach him! Think of all the fun you will have with the lessons!