Re: Men and HPV...
Your anxiety is completely unwarranted. HPV is really nothing. Some strands cause visible warts (which are JUST like warts you'd get anywhere on your body), some cause changes that can lead to cervical cancer (preventable with regular pap smears and medical attention), or some do literally nothing. I swear, if you caught HPV from a doorknob, or someone sneezing on you, it would be treated like the complete non-event it really is.
I think it would help you to see a therapist to help you work through your feelings about this.