Re: Trying to figure out which girl gave me HPV, Please help need advice thanks!!!
Lucky, I didn't mean that you shouldn't care that you have it. Of course no one wants to have HPV and the associated genital warts. I have genital warts and they definitely are not nice to have. If I didn't have a fiance who I am marrying next year I would certainly worry about future relationships.
All you can do is get your warts treated and use protection every time you have sex. The thing is, I know it doesn't make any difference to you, but 80% of sexually active people will at some point in their lives be infected with HPV. It is a risk that every single person who has sex takes.
There is every chance that your first girlfriend had HPV anyway before she even met you and very few people who have HPV actually develop warts so there is every chance that she wouldn't develop warts anyway.
I am on the pill and do not use any other protection with my fiance and I have never given him warts. Yes, he will have HPV but there is no saying that I didn't get it from him in the first place. It is one of those things that you just can't point any fingers.
Most of the time HPV is not visually noticeable so hardly anyone who has it knows about it!
You say you wish more than anything that you had gotten a strain of HPV that didn't give you warts, so why don't you get your warts treated and make yourself feel better. You have to bear with it but the treatment will help you.