Hi and welcome!
I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I know how upsetting it all can be.
If it will make you feel any better, HPV and dypslasia don't usually cause pain or any symptoms at all, for that matter. The majority of women don't even know they have them until they are tested for them.
I'm not a doctor, but I do know that ovarian cysts can cause severe pain. I've had a cyst on my left ovary for almost two years that somehow went from a functional cyst to a complex, solid cyst. I also have a functional cyst on my right ovary. Both have caused me a lot of pain in the past few years. My gyn/oncologist wants me to have what's left of my ovaries removed to eliminate the problems, but I'm going to have to wait until December, when I go on Christmas vacation.
I hope you get some relief soon. Please let us know how you're doing.