Freaked Out and Lost
So, a couple of months ago, my girlfriend calls me and tells me she just left her doctor's office and has beed diagnosed with a high risk strain of non-wart producing genital HPV.
I am the only person she has ever slept with; pretty much, I'm the only person she's ever done anything what-so-ever with. This means I'm surely the one that has given it to her, meaning obviously, I had or still have the virus.
I have done a ton of research online and know there's no test for men. What I just don't understand is why this is not being pursued very much when it could keep men who are carrying the virus from infecting others until their bodies have fought it off?
This is my main fear, that since there is no way for me to be tested, if she gets through it and her immune system clears her, how am I ever to know whether or not I'm going to keep reinfecting her or not? Anymore we've decided not to have sex again until we're married so I don't have to worry about it right now, but what about later on?