ScaredIIDeath

So I was diagnosed with genital warts and have several questions that I just can't seem to find a straight answer to. I have asked my doctor these questions but they just didn't seem to satisfy my expectations so I figure why not ask more people. So I'm a young man and have HPV so now what do I do stop having sex completely? How long do I wait to have sex with another partner? Some sites say that your immune system fights off and flushes the virus out others say you have it for the rest of your life. Which is true? Some say that once you remove the warts you may no longer spread the virus some say you will. Which is true? If you go two years with out another outbreak are you cured some say yes and some say no. Which is true? I'm just so confused and don't want to spread the virus at all and really don't want to knowingly spread it like it was to me. If need be I will abstain for two years. I feel ashamed that I contracted genital warts and feel dirty because of it is there a way to feel better about this and cope with it. Has anyone had to tell a future partner they had it and how was it handled is it something that should be told in the beginning or do you wait till you both are already in love and risk hurting both of you? I understand that these are a lot of questions but I'm trying to be as moral about this as possible and the only way I know how to do this is by expanding my knowledge of this subject. This is so agonizing for me so please give me the straight answers and please if you don't know the facts and are unsure please don't answer.