Please help - HPV in relationship
I first went to my gyn and the pap smear came abnormal. So I visited a specialist and she set me up for a colposcopy. The results showed that I was at both, high risk and low risk for HPV. Among these, the specialist said that I had herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia..(among others). I never had these before until now. My mother-in-law told me that I cannot breast feed my baby because I would transfer the virus. (I am not pregnant yet, but speaking for the future). Another place I went told me that I should just use condoms for the rest of my life. I have heard all of these others things such as it is very common and that I shouldn't worry, and that I should just visit my specialist twice a year. But what about what I have? One cannot recommend that people should live a happy, healthy and stress-free life because this among million things in life are very stressful. The reason I am writting to you is because I want you to be honest with me in detail what are the risks that I will be facing in my life. How will it affect my life? My babies that I will WANT to breast feed? How come my husband does not have symptoms? How can we go about this. What about him, what does he need to do? Or am I the only one that should get this vaccine and just wait for time to heal it?