He has HPV- date him or not? I am Nervous..
I am crazy about someone I met online and confused what to do. We have ourt first date tomorrow. He informed me last night that the reason he has been reluctant to meet is because he has HPV. I dont know what number or version, just that he has warts.
Were already crazy about one another and could have a future, based on conversations and pics we have shared. But I am 40yrs old and its hard enough to find someone to spend your life with in this day and age, I have been online dating awhile now. Its a miracle I dont already have HPV with all the partners I have had and unprotected sex over the yrs.
He says if someone loves him, it shouldnt matter, and shrugs it off like its no big deal, That it will go away in two yrs anyway, HE SAYS...I know I see that when I look online too.
I like alot of sex and foreplay. I sell sexual products and like it alot. But I guess my fear is, I am already getting older and have issues finding a good guy, if I get with him and it dont work out and I get HPV as a parting gift?
Plan A- What would you suggest? Walk away and not try with him?
Plan B- Go for it, if we have a connection, worse case scenario it will go away in 2 yrs?
If I go get the Gardisan shot, those are spread out over time right? I dont have medical ins. Are they expensive to buy one at a time and is it effective enough after first shot to not get it? If I run and get shot tomorrow? Or not effective until I have done all three shots?
I am so confused what to do, HELP and thoughts please...I really like this guy, but worry i wil be skittish and afraid to do foreplay or sex with him.