Please make sure that you get at least two opinions from different doctors. Also, make sure that your OB knows that you are having these types of problems. I have heard a story that one urologist used the wrong type of bladder sling material on a woman and now she is having all kinds of problems. Make sure you know all the risks that are involved in whatever particular surgery that you are having.
I would highly recommend that you see a special urologist that specializes in women's urinary issues called a urogynecologist
. To find one near you go to this website: http://www.augs.org/custom/patient_d...13&showTitle=1
I already looked and there are quite a few of these doctors in MA. I hope one is near you. This type of doctor is so popular near me that they are scheduled way out. My OB/GYN called the urogyne and I got in quicker with this referral.
I never knew there were such doctors until I started having some bladder issues after my last child was born. I am in my mid-30's too. Do you have any kids?