Oh Lizzie! You are so not alone. I have had 5 children and never had this problem before until recently. I have to wipe and then stand up with more tissue ready to catch anything and wait a minute before pulling my underpants up. I haven't really had too many problems leaking after leaving the ladies room, but one day I did get upset at my kids...and when I raised my voice (which I shouldn't have done, even though they were upstairs and I was downstairs) I had an accident. I did many kegel exercises after the last baby, so I know it's not because of child #5. Needless to say, it is awful to feel out of control of our bodies like this. Hang in there! My husband jokes and tells me that he ought to buy me diapers!!!! He is always joking about things trying to make me laugh. He came down with Lyme symptoms earlier this year and we think I gave it to him. My whole family is sick now, so we are all taking the things that Dr. Jernigan says will help. I feel pretty good these days. Have a nice day!