Hi there!
I too am scared of sids and have heard different ages about when it's ok to stop worrying..so i'm just sticking to the year mark. I've bought the Angel Care Monitor and it has helped me a lot! It "ticks" when the baby is breathing. I've heard of people have false alarms due to where the sensor is positioned but i've had no troubles so far.
Just make sure you're following the guidelines...back to sleep..no smoking...don't overheat baby...etc!
Oh yeah..talk to your dr. I talked to mine and she made me feel a lot better!
take care!
S
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IUI's-4 to conceive Troy July 25/05

m/c *angel* 10 weeks July/04
IUI's-2 for bfp Sept 27/07